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My Thank You Note To The Narcissists
The Narcissists. We all know who they are. We can spot them with the accuracy of a sniper. Not because they are showy and loud, but because of something more subtle. The behaviors that show up when the narcissist is engaged in conflict. While they come in both the male and female variety, I’m addressing the males here.
I’m an introverted empath. We seem to get a lot of attention for being deeply insightful, creative thinkers, and being the ones that actually inspire change. Though after studiously observing narcissists, I realize they do so many things I could never do. So while I’m comfortable with my introversion, I can see areas where I have been weak. I discovered them from watching these guys.
For The Win
Get into a conflict with a narcissist, and be prepared for every weapon in their arsenal to be unloaded on you. Why? Because they are pros at winning at all costs.
Deflecting the blame? Check.
Attacking your reputation? Check.
Portraying themselves as the real victim in the situation? Check again.
This stuff works for them not because they are evil, but because they lack the empathy that would keep the rest of us from going this far. They are in…
